Why You Struggle to Start Doing What You Love (And How to Overcome It)
Ever had an amazing idea, felt super excited about it, and then… nothing? You just can’t seem to start? You’re not alone.
The moment we decide to do something we love, doubts creep in:
Is this really a good idea?
Am I even qualified to do this?
There are already so many experts out there—why would anyone choose me?
Sound familiar? It’s completely normal. Seriously. Even the most successful people have these thoughts.
Why Do We Doubt Ourselves?
Our minds are wired to protect us from failure. That’s why we second-guess ourselves—it’s just our brain trying to keep us safe. The difference between those who succeed and those who stay stuck isn’t the absence of doubt; it’s knowing how to push past it.
How to Move Forward Even When You Doubt Yourself
1. Strengthen Your Belief in Yourself
Doubt will always be there, but your belief needs to be stronger. Ask yourself: Why don’t I fully believe in myself? Is it because of past criticism? Family negativity? Whatever it is, don’t ignore it, acknowledge it first then work on it— don’t let it control you.
2. Let Go of Old Limiting Beliefs
Once you understand where your doubts come from, you can release them. Tell yourself:
"I’m an adult now. Those old beliefs don’t define me anymore. Those old beliefs don’t have power upon me anymore."
Shift your mindset to:
"I love my ideas. I love bringing them to life."
3. Focus on Opportunities, Not Obstacles
Instead of thinking: “Why would anyone buy from me?” ask: “What unique value can I bring that others can’t?”
The Bottom Line
Belief doesn’t mean ignoring doubt—it means choosing to move forward anyway. The more you choose belief over fear, the stronger it becomes. It’s a journey, and every step you take reinforces your confidence.
So go for it. The world needs what you have to offer.